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A place of female sexuality and sensuality. Empowerment of the mind and the body is something that turns me on - in both males and females. This blog is about lust. Lust for the things that feel taste and smell divine - for sex, magick, beauty and satin that slides across your skin like a river of blood.

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

Whacking Off?

I'm a big fan of masturbation. I have been since I as a horny teenager who saw her first "accidental" glimpse of pornography. From then, right up until today.
I can't understand why people are so offended by the thought that their partner masturbates. They take it as an affront against their own sexual prowess. As if they are not pleasing their partner appropriately.
It's got nothing to do with that. The reality is, masturbation can be an expression of many things. It is a good stress release and this can be physicologically proven. The endorphins an orgasm releases, whether alone or with someone, helps to relax the person. It can be used as a tool (by poeple who are of this belief) on the path to spiritual enlightenment and self discovery. You can use it to get in touch with yourself, and find out what really turns you on, and what doesn't. Whacking off isn't just about whacking off, you know.
And of course sex toys come into the frame as well. Or otherwise known as "marital aids", to those who wish to hide their experimentation under a flimsy shroud of what they consdier to be "decency".
I have found that men in particular are afraid of these harmless battery operated tools. Men who have garages full of hardware that they never use. Men who whine about their women not being adventurous enough in the bedroom (or other rooms as the case may be). Suggest to him that you want to spice things up a little, and he pants like a dog. Pull out a great big vibrating dildo, and his manhood shrinks in fear; all lust for excitement replaced by a faceless tugging in the pit of his stomach that somehow he hasn't been good enough.
So ladies, what to do? We know that we're secure. If he pulled out a vibrating butt-plug we wouldn't automatically think that we weren't doing a good job and he had decided that men were really the way to go. Of course not! We need a solution to this fear. And that solution is control.
"I want you to do naughty things to me," whispered coarsely in his ear. Let him tie you up. Let him be empowered by the experience. make it sound as if the vibrator isn't anywhere near as good as he is. Tell him to torment you with it before he allows you to have him inside you. Make it a game where he is the inevitable conquerer over this terrifying 7-inch long toy.

And soon enough, he won't feel quite so bad when he find out you've been doing this alone at home while he is working...

posted by Fury at 1:59 PM 17 comments

Tuesday, August 02, 2005

Going Bald?

In this day and age of modern conveniences and miracle cures, there is almost no excuse for someone to go bald. Of course, you will always see the typical aging man trying to flick his hair over his bald spot. The man with the brown old-man trousers and the belly stretching at his buttons on his blue plaid shirt.
But for people who are really serious about keeping their hair, there are a huge variety of products available for them. From Kerastase, to Rogain, and one called BioSphere Hair Co. I've only seen that once and have never seen it since. Perhaps a hair anomaly...?
Anywa, a full head of hair, when maintained appropriately look delicious. Hair is nice. Hair is good.
However, every so often someone comes along who suits not having hair at all. One tasty speciman for example would be the truly delicious Vin Diesel.
























Not a single scrap of hair on the boy. At all. And it looks hot.

So perhaps this explains a bit of the male minds preoccupation with bald women. You know what I mean. The hairless genital region. A shaved pussy.
Doing a bit of exploration, I think I have come to find that I agree somewhat with these men. They look nice. Groomed. Tidy. Sexy.

























So I did it. And when M saw it, he went wild. Amazing sex. All night. Just because one little patch of fur is no longer present. It looks nice, I have to admit. But I just can't understand what turned him on so much. I don't think it's because of the typical feminist view - that men want to pretend they are shagging prepubescent girls. I know why it turns me on... because it is so much more sensitive. I feel everything. And the look in his eyes when I see him getting hot because of it makes me wet.
But what is he getting out of it? What makes it so erotic for him?

posted by Fury at 1:10 PM 5 comments

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